having a personal sense of style is gay culture and the reason why gay men are seen as fashionable and lesbians as tacky is because the standards are so low for men and so high for women send post
and FURTHERMORE the standards set for women are centered around how appealing they are to men and not actually about style at all a lot of the time. Lesbian style doesn’t care what men find attractive and is therefore considered “wrong”
boop
honestly every time i go to a queer event i am amazed at how amazing everyone looks because everyone is embracing their individual style without heed to societal norms and that confidence is what makes the look tbh. This is especially the case for trans/nb events because there’s a cohesive ‘fuck the binary’ aesthetic that’s just so beautiful and vibrant
Tbh the weird queer shit has always been the most innovative and interesting and always gets copied on runways like 1-5 years later